Do You Really Have to Cook to Be Healthy?

For my version of healthy? Yes. But let me be honest about when that falls apart.

You've heard it a thousand times:

"Meal prep on Sundays!"

"Just cook at home!"

"It's so easy once you get into the routine!"

And you think: Easy for who?

Because cooking takes time. Energy. Planning. Skill. Clean-up.

And on a Tuesday night when you're exhausted and didn't meal prep and the stress is hitting; fast food sounds a lot easier than chopping vegetables.

So let's talk about the real question underneath "do you have to cook to be healthy?"

For my version of healthy: yes.

But not because cooking is morally superior. Not because you "should."

Because my body needs what processed food can't give it.

And also: let me be honest about when cooking falls apart and what happens when stress hijacks the plan.

Why I Cook (The Real Reasons)

I'm Healing My Gut

This isn't about "clean eating" as a trend. This is medical.

After years of antibiotics, stress, inflammatory foods; my gut was wrecked. Leaky gut. Dysbiosis. All of it.

Processed food makes it worse:

• Inflammatory seed oils

• Hidden sugars

• Preservatives that kill good bacteria

• Additives that damage gut lining

• Ultra-processed ingredients my body doesn't recognize

Whole foods heal:

• Anti-inflammatory

• Nutrient-dense

• No hidden ingredients

• Supports gut bacteria

• My body knows what to do with them

I have to cook because I need to control what goes into my body.

Not control in a disordered way. Control in a "my gut is damaged and I'm actively healing it" way.

That requires knowing exactly what I'm eating. And that requires cooking it myself.

I Actually Save Money

This surprises people.

"But whole foods are expensive!"

Compared to what?

Fast food meal: $12-15

Processed "healthy" convenience food: $8-12 per meal

Cooking whole foods: $4-6 per meal (often less)

I buy:

• Vegetables (seasonal, on sale, or frozen)

• Beans, lentils, rice (bulk, cheap)

• Potatoes, sweet potatoes

• Seasonal fruit

• Some proteins (eggs, chicken, fish when on sale)

• Herbs and spices

Total weekly grocery bill for one person cooking: $50-70

Total weekly fast food/takeout for one person: $100-150+

The money I save on processed food goes toward:

• High-quality probiotics ($40-60/month)

• L-glutamine for gut healing ($25/month)

• Digestive enzymes ($30/month)

• Omega-3s ($20/month)

• Other gut-healing supplements

Cooking isn't more expensive. It's strategic resource allocation.

Feed my body whole foods (cheaper and nourishing-er).

Support healing with targeted supplements (investment).

Both are necessary. Both are affordable because I'm not spending $15/meal on takeout.

I Know What I'm Eating

Processed food ingredient list: 40+ ingredients I can't pronounce

Restaurant food: Who knows what oil they used? How much sugar/salt? What preservatives?

My food: I put it there. I know what it is.

For someone healing their gut, this matters.

Hidden inflammatory ingredients are everywhere:

• Soybean oil (in almost everything)

• Hidden sugars (under 60+ different names)

• MSG and derivatives

• Wheat/gluten in unexpected places

• Dairy in "dairy-free" items

When I cook, I know.

No hidden sabotage. No wondering why my stomach hurts after eating something "healthy."

The Smells. The Freshness. The Actual Food Experience.

Let's talk about what nobody mentions:

Fresh herbs smell incredible.

Basil. Cilantro. Rosemary. Thyme.

The smell of garlic sautéing. Fresh lemon zest. Tomatoes roasting.

Processed food doesn't smell like anything. It smells like packaging. Like factory. Like nothing.

Real food smells alive.

And when you taste food made with fresh ingredients; no comparison.

A tomato from the farmers market vs. a tomato from a fast food burger.

Fresh herbs vs. dried seasoning packets.

Food that was alive yesterday vs. food that's been sitting in a freezer for months.

This isn't snobbery. This is actually experiencing food.

And once you taste the difference, processed food tastes like cardboard.

Vegan Meals Are Actually Faster

Here's what surprised me:

Vegan whole food cooking is FAST.

No worrying about meat being cooked through. No raw chicken contamination. No timing proteins.

15-minute vegan meals I make regularly:

• Rice bowl: rice + roasted vegetables + tahini sauce

• Pasta: whole grain pasta + marinara + vegetables

• Stir-fry: vegetables + tofu + soy sauce + rice

• Buddha bowl: greens + chickpeas + veggies + dressing

• Lentil soup: literally dump everything in pot, simmer

• Sweet potato + black beans + salsa

Prep time: Chop vegetables while rice/pasta cooks. Done.

Faster than:

• Driving to restaurant

• Waiting for delivery

• Standing in drive-thru line

And I know exactly what's in it.

Cooking Gets Easier With Practice

First month: Everything takes forever. I'm slow. It's exhausting.

After 3 months: Faster. Developing rhythm. Less thinking required.

After 6 months: Muscle memory. I can make dinner while talking on the phone.

Now: Cooking is automatic. I don't need recipes for basics. Just throw things together.

It's like any skill. Terrible at first. Easier with repetition.

The initial phase is rough. But it's temporary.

And the payoff, knowing how to feed myself quickly with real food, is worth the learning curve.

When It Falls Apart (The Honest Part)

Okay. That's why I cook and why it works.

Now let me tell you when it doesn't work.

When Stress Hits

Stress changes everything.

When I'm stressed, overwhelmed, exhausted:

I don't want vegetables. I want comfort.

And comfort, for me, is:

• French fries

• Cheese (even though dairy wrecks my gut)

• Bread (even though gluten makes me feel terrible)

• Sugar (even though it feeds the bad bacteria I'm trying to kill)

Stress + no meal prep = fast food.

Not because I don't know better. Not because I forgot my values.

Because stress hijacks my decision-making and I want the dopamine hit.

Fast food is designed to hit every pleasure center. Salt, fat, sugar, convenience.

When I'm dysregulated, that's what my nervous system craves.

Vegetables don't stand a chance against that craving.

When I Didn't Meal Prep

Meal prep is the backbone of the entire system.

When I meal prep on Sunday:

• Chopped vegetables ready to go

• Grains cooked and portioned

• Proteins prepped

• Sauces made

Weeknight cooking: Assemble pre-prepped ingredients. 10 minutes. Done.

When I DON'T meal prep:

• Get home exhausted

• Stare at raw vegetables

• Realize I have to wash, chop, cook everything from scratch

• Takes 45 minutes

• Fuck it, I'll just get Chipotle

Meal prep is not optional. It's the difference between success and fast food.

When I'm Already Hungry

Never go to the grocery store hungry.

Also: Never decide what to eat when already starving.

When I'm already hungry:

• Decision-making is impaired

• I want food NOW

• Fast food is 5 minutes away

• Cooking is 30-45 minutes away

Cooking requires planning before hunger hits.

If I wait until I'm starving to figure out dinner, I've already lost.

When Life Is Just... A Lot

Some weeks, everything works. Meal prepped, stress managed, cooking happens.

Other weeks:

• Caregiving crisis

• Work deadline

• Emotional overwhelm

• Didn't sleep

• Everything is on fire

Those weeks? Fast food happens.

Not because I failed. Because I'm human and sometimes survival mode wins.

Perfectionism about food is just another way to beat yourself up.

The Realistic Approach

Here's what actually works:

The 80/20 Rule

80% of the time: I cook. Whole foods. Gut-healing protocol.

20% of the time: I don't. And that's okay.

The 20% includes:

• Stress weeks when fast food happens

• Social situations (restaurants, friends' houses)

• Travel

• Days when I'm just too tired

The goal is not perfection. The goal is consistent-enough to heal while being human enough to survive.

Meal Prep Is Non-Negotiable

If I want to cook during the week, I HAVE to meal prep on the weekend.

Sunday routine:

• 2 hours

• Chop all vegetables for the week

• Cook 2-3 grains (rice, quinoa, potatoes)

• Prep 2 proteins if using

• Make 2 sauces/dressings

• Portion into containers

This makes weeknight cooking possible.

Without it, I'm setting myself up to fail.

Have Emergency Backup Plans

For when meal prep didn't happen or stress hits:

Frozen vegetables (already chopped, just heat)

Canned beans (rinse and use)

Frozen brown rice (microwaves in 3 minutes)

Pre-made sauces (organic marinara, tahini, salsa)

10-minute emergency meals:

• Frozen veggies + canned beans + salsa + rice

• Frozen veggies + pasta + marinara

• Sweet potato (microwave) + canned black beans + avocado

Not as good as fresh. But better than fast food for my gut.

Give Yourself Permission to Be Imperfect

Some weeks I nail it. Other weeks I eat Chipotle three times.

Both can be true.

I'm healing my gut 80% of the time. That's enough to see progress.

The 20% when I don't, that's being human. That's stress. That's life.

I don't beat myself up about it anymore.

I just get back to cooking when I can.

Understand Your Stress Eating Triggers

I know my pattern now:

Stress → dysregulated nervous system → craving fast food → dopamine seeking

The solution isn't more willpower. It's regulation.

When I notice stress building:

• Regulate nervous system FIRST (breathwork, grounding, movement)

• Then decide about food

• If I'm regulated, I can choose vegetables

• If I'm dysregulated, fast food wins

Sometimes the answer is: regulate nervous system, THEN cook.

Not force myself to cook from a dysregulated state.

Batch Cook on Good Days

Some days I have energy. Other days I don't.

On good energy days:

• Make double or triple portions

• Freeze extras

• Future-me will be grateful

On low energy days:

• Reheat something I batch cooked

• Or use emergency backup plan

I'm not trying to cook every single day. I'm trying to have food available for the days I can't.

What Changes When You Cook (Mostly)

After months of cooking 80% of the time:

My gut is healing. Less bloating, better digestion, inflammation decreasing.

I feel better. More energy, clearer thinking, less brain fog.

I save money. Hundreds per month that goes toward supplements and other health investments.

I know my body. I can tell what foods work and don't work because I control the variables.

Food tastes better. Fresh ingredients, real flavors, not factory-made.

I have a skill. I can feed myself. Anywhere. Anytime. No dependence on restaurants or processed food.

But also:

I'm not perfect. Some weeks are great. Some weeks I eat fast food.

I don't beat myself up anymore. Progress over perfection.

I'm healing. Slowly. Imperfectly. But healing.

The Bottom Line

Do you HAVE to cook to be healthy?

Depends on what "healthy" means for you.

For me; yes.

Because:

• My gut needs whole foods to heal

• I need to know what I'm eating

• I save money for supplements

• Vegan cooking is actually fast

• Fresh food tastes incredible

But also, realistically:

I don't cook perfectly. I don't meal prep every week. Stress derails me. Fast food happens.

And that's okay.

The goal is not perfection. The goal is healing my body most of the time while being human all of the time.

80% whole food cooking + 20% being human = sustainable.

100% perfection + shame when I fail = unsustainable.

I choose sustainable.

If You're Going to Start Cooking

Start here:

Week 1: Just dinner. One meal. Pick 3 easy recipes you can rotate.

Week 2: Add breakfast. Overnight oats, smoothies, or batch-cooked egg muffins.

Week 3: Try meal prepping. Just vegetables and grains. See if it helps.

Week 4: Keep what works, adjust what doesn't.

Don't try to do everything at once. That's how people burn out and quit.

Build slowly. Give yourself grace. Expect imperfection.

The Practice This Week

Choose one:

If you don't cook at all:

• Make dinner 3 times this week

• Notice: how does your body feel after vs. processed food?

If you cook sometimes:

• Meal prep on Sunday (just 2 hours)

• Notice: does it make weeknights easier?

If you cook regularly but feel guilty when you don't:

• Give yourself permission for the 20%

• Notice: does releasing perfectionism make it more sustainable?

Final Truth

Cooking isn't about being a "good" person or following rules.

It's about what your body needs.

My body needs whole foods to heal. So I cook. Most of the time.

Your body might need something different. That's okay too.

But if you're healing your gut, managing inflammation, or trying to understand what foods work for YOUR body; cooking gives you information and control that processed food can't.

It's not always easy. It's not always perfect.

But it's working. Slowly. Imperfectly. And that's enough.

With you in the becoming,

Dawn

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Beauty not as approval, but as truth.
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P.S. - The meal you're dreading cooking tonight?

It'll take 20 minutes. Maybe less if you already prepped.

Just start. Chop one vegetable. Turn on the stove.

Future you will feel better. I promise.

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